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Monday October 17, 2011

Greetings my name is dan i am verry much sub at heart but i have one problem i love male chastity i love it becouse it makes me feel like i belong. I can not explain it any better other then a belonging or even ownership. But im confused i get so much negative on this im told im just a perve.. to my asking of your advice should i keep up my belief?

Hello Dan,

Hello Dan, That my dear sub, is NOT a problem. Loving Male Chastity is not wrong in any way. It is natural that it makes you feel like you belong, for you don't have that feeling of a hardon that could make you embarrassed and the ownership aspect I know, I have most my slaves in chastity. There is nothing wrong with male chastity, it doesn't mean you’re a pervert because well your not getting off.. you enjoy the fact that you can't get off the inability to keep a hard on. You should defiantly keep up your belief. Don’t let someone tell you that your fetish is wrong because they all have their own secrets that they don't want out. Keep up your belief and your enjoyment of it. Also here is a website that is all about chastity if you don't have it. http://www.malechastityblog.com/. Take care and don't feel ashamed of your fetish.

Sunday July 31, 2011

What is sensory deprevation? Thank you

Well G:

Sensory deprivation(perceptual isolation) is the removal of stimulai from one or more senses.You can be encased in something like a vac bed, a water tank, hoods, latex leather. or even be in a dark room. Hoods for sensory deprivation are usually eyeless with small holes for the nose and mouth. So you cannot hear or see. There are many ways that this can be done the above are just some examples.. But it does remove you of sight, of hearing, of touching and sometimes of smelling. Short term sessions of sensory deprivation can be relaxing and is like meditation, but long term or forced can result in anxiety, hallucinations, bizzare thoughts and depression. Its exciting to see how far one can go.

Sunday: May 1, 2011

Hello Mistress Talon i am wondering what is the best way to meet a Mistress/ Goddess/ Domme and get to know them on a personal level and possibly start a relationship with them?

Wrestlingfan4life


Well Wrestlingfan4life:

The best way to meet a Mistress/Goddess/Domme varies depending on what kind of person you are. You of course would be the submissive type.. I would suggest going to your local munches and meeting people that way. But then you can go to websites like fetlife.com and collarme.com (collarme.com is defiantly an interesting place to go.. you may not find anything serious there but it's amusing none the less). You can always approach Domme's at munches or play parties and politely ask if you could play with them. Then you get to see how they play beforehand. But defiantly get out into your local kink community and meet people. Then try and be as useful as you can and be the best sub you can be, be fun to play with and respectful. Then someone you play with may want to play with you again, and then again, then may want to take you under their wing and train you as the proper submissive or slave you wish to be.. It may take a while to find the right domme for you. Eventually she will come along.


How do you know as a domme that enough is enough.. When it is too much.. Especially when the Slave or sub doesn't tell you when to stop?

Anonymous

Dear Anonymous, Well for one.. you go by how the sub reacts.. You pay a close eye on them and test them by communicating with them. Whether it be from them holding something in their hand and them letting it go when it's too much, if they stop reacting then they more than likely will not be able to hold onto the object anymore. A friend of mine cannot hold her hand up when it's been too much. You learn you're submissive to the point when you can tell that they are at their limit. You should always be asking if they are still "green" in the color spectrum.. or if you use a different way you should ask how it pertains to that way.. "Are you still with me" no answer results is stopping of the scene. You also check temperatures (especially in mummification) and pulses if you're not believing if your submissive can really go on, Sometimes they think they can handle more than they really can. If you aren't sure at all the domme/dom has every right to call the scene.. Sometimes to the submissives disdain.


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Dear Mistress Talon! I am a 21 year old student and I think I've a kinky side: All I can think of is being whipped by a woman dressed in a black PVC outfit. Is that a "normal" dream to have and if yes, will you help me realize me it - if I've what it takes to go through with it? Kind regards, Mathias

Dear Mathias, You think you have a kinky side, by saying you think about a woman dressed in PVC and whipping you all the time, would defiantly be you thinking about dabbling in this side of life. And find curiosity within kink. It is perfectly normal to fantasize about these things, and you are no stranger than anybody else. I can help you realize if you got what it takes to go through with it. You just have to have the balls enough to show up for a session.

Mistress Talon <3